Category Archives: Women and Men

The costs of dating you

Sisters Stop Asking Sisters, Im A Black Man Just Ask Me Let’s be realistic! How much does a brotha have to be able to afford to maintain a relationship with you? Now, it’s always easy for a brotha who has … Continue reading

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Ladies! Do you use the 90 day rule? If “no”, why not?

Terrie Lynn for Chokkklit Shop on NottHeads.com After years of talking/listening to women advise other women about their “dead end relationships” I was really becoming irked. Either: She’ll create a scenario on a guy she doesn’t know. She’ll dig real … Continue reading

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November – The Chokklit Shop

November07 – Create the Fairytale Love story on NottHeads.com Click to read “The Chokkklit Shop“ Are you having the romantic life you have always wanted and imagination? Welcome to the club that has many members who feel and live exactly … Continue reading

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September 07 – The Chokkklit Shop

The Dreadful Dating Double Standard The first time a woman has relations with a guy she’s crazy about is an exciting and special time. Still, the question remains: When? Well, it depends…. Some women are happy to get down to … Continue reading

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It’s all in the interpretation

August 07 – The Chokklit Shop on NottHeads.com This month’s column looks at how men and women use words to communicate different emotions or representations of the relationship status. When a man says “I’m not really looking for a relationship” … Continue reading

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A Good Black Man

Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls, and the halls at work. Most we can’t see because we don’t know what a good man really looks like. He usually isn’t … Continue reading

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